Deaf Dog Myths

Myths and Misinformation Regarding Deaf Dogs
Based on the original text by Leslie

Many negative warnings and stories surrounding  deaf dogs have a myth-like quality. Handed down from person to person, they are  dutifully recited each time the subject of the deaf dog is raised. One by one,  we will expose these myths to the harsh light of fact, facts drawn from the  actual experiences of those who share their lives with a deaf  dog.

The  “Startled-Aggressive Dog” Myth

of the ability to hear, the deaf dog spends each day jumping out of his skin,
startled by everything that crosses it’s path. If you walk up behind a deaf dog,
it startles. If you touch it when it’s not looking at you, it startles. If you
wake it when it’s sleeping, it startles. Over time, these constantly startled
dogs develop fearful, aggressive personalities. They will bite when startled, or
attack for no reason.

Perhaps no other myth has caused more damage  than this one. Its apparent logic is what makes it so seductive. It seems to  make sense, and is therefore seldom questioned. This myth assumes that “being  startled” is a permanent condition, that the deaf dog is perpetually startled,  and that he will always respond by becoming fearful and aggressive. But the actual experience of deaf dog owners tells a different  story.

The truth is that deaf dogs adapt to their  hearing loss, and become comfortable with their surroundings. In the same way a  hearing dog can be startled by a loud noise, a deaf dog can be startled by an  unexpected touch. Owners report that their dogs’ responses to being touched  unexpectedly range from a “YIKES” response, where the dog may jump, to a “huh?”  response, where the dog simply turns and looks. Some may be momentarily  disoriented when awakened, but few become aggressive or bite in

Further, a deaf dog can be desensitized to the  startle effect of being touched unexpectedly or awakened from sleep. One owner  calls this “working on sneaking up behaviors.” This is done by first walking up  behind the dog when he isn’t looking; touch the dog, then immediately pop a  treat in the dog’s mouth when he turns around. The dog quickly associates good  things (i.e., the treat) with being touched unexpectedly, and learns to respond  happily. This exercise would not be possible if all deaf dogs responded to  unexpected touch by biting their owners! Not all deaf dogs require this type of  conditioning, but it is helpful for the more sensitive  ones.

A deaf dog can also be conditioned to wake  easily in response to a gentle touch. Start slowly by first placing your hand  in front of the sleeping dog’s nose, allowing him to smell that you are near.  Next lightly touch the dog on the shoulder or back, pretend you are trying to  touch only one or two hairs with your fingertips. Then gently stroke the dog  with two fingertips, then with your entire hand. Most deaf dogs will awaken  during some part of this exercise. When they open their eyes, their owner’s
smiling face and perhaps even a treat rewards them. In a matter of weeks, the  dog becomes accustomed to waking up when the owner places a hand in front of
his nose, or lightly touches his shoulder or back. Waking up becomes a gentle,  positive experience.

Deaf dog owners do take special measures to alert the  dog to their presence before walking up to, or touching the dog. Many will wave  their hands in the air, flip a light switch on and off, lightly blow on the  back of the dog, or toss a ball or small stone near him. Or they simply wait  until the dog turns toward them. The care that owners exercise in waking, or  walking up behind a deaf dog is not born from a fear of being attacked or  bitten. Rather, it is an act of compassion, which acknowledges the special
needs of the dog. Deaf dog owners don’t work to create a dog that will never be  startled, but to condition the dog and teach it to respond in a positive manner  to unexpected events. The end result is a well-adjusted, happy  dog.

But what happens before the deaf dog is  conditioned to respond positively to situations where it is startled? Will it  bite or attack? Deaf dog owners adamantly tell us that this is not the case.  Prior to any desensitization exercises, a deaf dog will respond to be being  startled in the same way a hearing dog would–he is momentarily istraught. His  age, breed and previous life experiences will influence his reaction. Then the  moment passes, and he returns to his normal “pre-startled”  state.

The “Deaf Dogs Should  Never Live With Children” Myth
dogs should never be placed in homes with children. They will startle and bite,
they will become aggressive, and they will be hard to train, so they have no
place in a home with children.

This myth seems to include many of the other  deaf dog myths (talked about elsewhere on this page). In truth, if a deaf dog  is well socialized to human children, it is as safe to have in a home with  children as any other dog. What is more important is the dog’s history, its  personality and any breed characteristics that affect how the dog reacts to  small, quick-moving, and unpredictable humans.

If you are considering getting a dog and you know children will be a vital part of the dog’s life, then do the research from  the point of view of finding the best match for your situation. Consider all  the same factors you would if you were to get a hearing  dog:

Deaf dogs come in many sizes, shapes and colors. They are dogs first, representatives of their breed or mix second, and  individuals third. All of the factors listed above should weigh more heavily in  your decision to get a dog than whether the dog is  deaf.

The question could actually be turned around: I want to  get a dog, but will my children fit in with my plan? Can they treat the dog  gently and fairly at all times? Will they respect that it is not a human in a  fur coat? WiIl they treat it like a living being and not a toy? Will the  children play with and train the dog? Can I trust them to keep the same rules  for safety and good manners that I teach the dog? Will they bond with it and be  a good companion? Am I willing to supervise all interactions between the dog and  very young children until they grow up enough to be trusted around the dog?  These questions are just as important as any about the dog you want to bring  home.

The right deaf dog in a home with children can teach them a lot about dealing with someone who doesn’t have the same abilities  that they do. Motivated children usually make wonderful dog trainers (better  than the adults in many cases).

The  “More-Likely-To-Be-Hit-By-A-Car” Myth
a deaf dog cannot hear an approaching car, a honking horn, or his owner’s
verbal command, he is more likely to be hit by a car, and killed, than a
hearing dog.

This myth implies that the majority of dog owners allow  their dogs to roam, unsupervised, without a leash. While this may be true for  the dog living on a 20-acre farm, it is certainly not true for the  city-dwelling/suburban dog. In fact, most cities have leash law prohibiting  such activity.

It also implies that the hearing dog has a  survival advantage because it can hear the approaching car, and easily move out  of its way. But dogs are not born knowing that the sound of an approaching car,  or honking horn, is synonymous with pain and possible  death.

Experience has shown that ANY dog wandering  off leash, in close proximity to cars, is at risk. Even the best-trained  hearing dog may run into a car’s path if he’s chasing a cat or a squirrel.  Because of this uncertainty, many dog owners do not allow their dogs off leash  unless they are in an enclosed area. It is a cardinal rule of deaf dog
ownership to NEVER allow the dog to roam off leash. A small percentage of rural  deaf dog owners do allow their dogs off leash in certain circumstances, but  they are the exception. Most deaf dog owners simply never take the  chance.

But what about accidents? What if you drop the  leash on your daily walk or your dog squeezes through an open door? It should be  noted that not all dogs bolt the minute they are free. The following exercise can condition any dog not to run if the leash is loose and dragging. While  walking your dog, let go of everything except the handle of the leash. Let the rest of the leash go slack and drag on the ground. If the dog tries to bolt, he  receives a correction when he reaches the end of the leash. Eventually, he will  pay no attention if the leash goes slack and drags on the  ground.

A deaf dog can also be easily trained to sit  and wait before being release to walk through a door. One of the best ways to  reinforce this is not to take the dog for a walk unless he sits and allows you  to put on his leash. The dog quickly learns “no sit, no leash, no walk.” Deaf  dog owners have also reported success in using a vibrating collar as a signal  for the dog to come.

The  “Need A Hearing Dog” Myth
a deaf dog does not hear everything happening around him/her, a hearing dog is
essential. All deaf dogs would benefit from living with a hearing dog to
function as their “ears.”

The place where this myth does the most damage  is when a deaf dog is looking for a new home. Rescues (and sometimes breeders)  will often make it a requirement to have a “hearing dog” already living in the  home. People who are thinking of adopting a deaf dog are put off by the idea of  having to adopt two dogs, instead of just the one they were interested in. Sometimes vets will recommend to new owners to get a second  dog.

The truth here is that deaf dogs do not need a hearing  companion as a guide. They are no different from any other dog in this regard.  They do perfectly well as an only dog, as part of a larger family, or with only  other deaf dogs. There is no valid reason that a deaf dog cannot be placed as  an only dog in a home. The personality of the individual dog is what will  determine whether or not a second dog is desirable (and there is no reason why  their companion cannot be another deaf dog). It is certainly not a  necessity.

Many deaf dogs are adopted with a hearing dog  already in the home. The deaf dog seems to follow the hearing dog, and appears  to be depending on it. In actuality, the deaf dog is simply following the lead  of the dog who already “knows the routine.” In families where the deaf dog came  first, they’ve noticed that the hearing dog follows the deaf one. In families  with 2 or more deaf dogs (and no hearing ones), the new dog still follows the lead of the older one. Dogs are social animals, and will tend to hang out
together when away from home. This does not mean that the hearing one is looking  out for the deaf one, it’s just one “family” member keeping track of the other
(the deaf dog is as likely to “help out” the hearing one as the other way  around).

Most dogs love having a playmate and will be  very happy to have someone to run and wrestle with. Dogs (for the most part) do  not discriminate on the basis of color, size, sex, length of tail, size of  ears, height, weight, number of legs, color of eyes, or any of the other myriad  of variations in the dog phenotype. They really don’t care if either or none of  them can hear. Remember, a dog born deaf doesn’t know he’s missing anything! He  has no frame of reference to know what hearing is. He may think his hearing  playmate is more observant than he is, but many times a deaf dog’s vision and  sense of smell will more than makes up for what his ears  miss.

If you are hoping to teach one dog to retrieve  the other, you might want to know that many deaf dogs have been trained to go get their dogs, cats, or people on command. A deaf dog is just as likely to notice that their deaf playmate has been called in as they are their hearing one. There is nothing wrong with using a hearing dog to find the deaf one when they are out of your sight, but that should be no excuse for not training your deaf dog to keep in touch with you.

The bottom line should be, know yourself and  your dog. Don’t put limitations on what your dog can do by portraying him or  her as “dependent” on another dog. If adding to the “family” is something that you would both enjoy, then do it. If not, just enjoy each other and don’t worry about it. Don’t feel that you must have a hearing dog as a companion to your  deaf dog to be happy. Having two (or more) dogs increases both the fun and the  work, and it’s not fair to the second dog to adopt him only to be your first  dog’s ears.

The “Time Bomb”  Myth
if your deaf dog currently shows no signs of aggressive behavior, he will
suddenly become aggressive when he reaches 3 years of age. The deaf dog is an
accident waiting to happen.

It’s unclear how this myth evolved, but evolve  it did. It is ludicrous to believe that your loving family pet will suddenly  become aggressive on its third birthday. A quick look at canine development also  suggests that this theory is inaccurate. All dogs go through an “adolescent  period” which can start as early as 5 months (in small breeds), and last as long  as 3 years (in larger breeds). Canine adolescence is marked by such behavior as  refusing to perform previously learned commands, forgetting housebreaking,  excessive chewing, and generally being a bit of a brat. Most dogs are through  the worst of their adolescence by 2 years of age, but some dogs will remain in  this phase for an additional year. A dog that is 3+ years of age, has generally  outgrown most of the annoying habits of the adolescent, and is usually a joy to
live with!

The “Incredible  Challenge To Train” Myth
deaf dog is an incredible challenge to raise and train because they cannot
respond to verbal commands. They can be trained to respond to hand signals, but
because the dog can only see the signals if it is looking at you, deaf dogs
must be kept under strict control at all times.

Dogs are postural creatures, tuned into the world of   body language. In training any dog, visual signals are more effective than  voice commands. A voice command is an additional aid, not a mandatory  requirement. People talk, dogs don’t. Though we all know this, we tend to  forget the full implications of this statement. We place importance on our tone  of voice and the words we use when speaking to our dogs. We seldom realize the  additional messages communicated by our bodies, and the way those messages are  interpreted by our dogs.

Dogs do not rely heavily on the spoken word.  They use their bodies to communicate intent, dominance, submission, and a wide  variety of emotions. True, they may growl, bark or whine, but these are an  additional, or secondary, means of communication. A dog may bark while playing,  or while chasing a cat over the fence. His body languages, and subsequent  actions, are needed to interpret the true meaning of his bark. Our dogs are  always “reading” us, and place a higher value on our body language than the  words we speak.

Nor are dogs born with an innate understanding  of the steady stream of babble we direct at them daily. Over time, a hearing dog learns to associate words with events and, eventually, these words become meaningful to the dog. A deaf dog is just as capable of making these associations, albeit he will be learning based on visual  cues.

Challenge is in the eye of the beholder. The  trainer of a deaf dog will have to learn techniques designed for a visually  oriented dog. This is not a difficult task, but if the trainer cannot make this  adjustment, he will fail. Surely, this is not the fault of the deaf dog.  Resources abound to assist the deaf dog trainer in this process. All that is
required is a willingness to learn.

It’s also wrong to assume that if a deaf dog  isn’t looking at his owner, he’s unreachable and out of control. Many dogs pick  up movement and signals with their peripheral vision. Well trained deaf dogs make eye contact with their owners on a regular basis, keeping track of them,  repeatedly checking in. As the deaf dog matures and his training progresses, getting his attention becomes less and less of an  issue.